Mom, wife, and friend have cancer.

My mother has been diagnosed with lung cancer and she has limited time. My wife may have cancer her biopsy will determine that in a few days. A close friend also has cancer. I am having difficulty figuring out what to do and in what order to do them. I’m not even prepared for my cat to go much less my Mom and possibly my Wife and friend. My prayers have devolved in chaotic ramblings and I just end up stopping and crying. I feel like I’m trapped in a maze with no exit and endless obstacles to navigate.